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理解出来ないと言う時には気をつけよう

あなたの言っていることが理解出来ない
なんでそういっているのか分からない

文章だけを見ると質問なのですが、実際のコミュニケーションでは「否定」です。つまり
「あなたの言っていることには反対だ」
と受け止められます。

質問は詰問と紙一重です。

本当に分からない時には、
「すみませんもう一回説明してください」
「何となくそうかなぁとも思うのですが、なぜそう思ったのですか」→あぁ、じゃぁ私は反対です

という風にすれば、人格否定が混じらずに、議論ができる。

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